Divorce is one of the major chances of life that you may be affected by. You need to deal with certain issues like the money, the children, your personal changes, and how you can adapt to divorce. First, you have to realize that there is life after marriage. You can bring a new life and not be tied down a marriage that just can't work. If someone can cause you that much pain then they aren't worth it. Take your time grieving. You should take months to lie in bed and contemplate where your life is going. You need to take just a little bit of time to examine your life and then you have to focus on your life and your children.
You can't just stop being a mother; you have to focus on the children. Once the divorce is final, you do what you need to do to be happy and focus on the things that matter in your life.
Once you have accepted your fate, you do not need to be so negative about it. Enjoy what you have and look forward towards the future. You will also want to forget about regret. If you had children as a result of the marriage, then you obviously wouldn't want to regret them. Even if you want to yell and curse and be difficult, remember that you have children and ask yourself what they would think of you if they saw you acting like that. You need to be a role model for your children. You can purchase a new home, buy a new car, and rebuild a life that is completely what you want. You have so much freedom and you should advantage of the freedom. Change your appearance, redecorate the house, do whatever it takes to find yourself.
